Dating Do's and Dont's - Getting a second date

First Date:  Do’s and Don’ts

Remember that you only get one chance to make the first impression.

1)  Ensure that you are listening as well as speaking.
2)  Smile
3)  Maintain eye contact, but don't stare - this is an agressive act.
4)  Don’t spend the entire date talking about yourself.   Ask questions about his job, family, friends, goals, pets, hobbies and interests.  You will get all the information you need to know if you ask questions and then listen.
5)  Don’t ask yourself is the man I want to marry on your first date.  Don't look at her as if she has no clothes on.
6)  Be safe.  Use your good judgement.   Always remain in public and take your cell phone.
7)  Make sure you tell a friend where you are going.
8)  Don’t get drunk.  You will more likely to make bad judgements.
9)  Look your best.
10)  Don’t give away too much personal information.
11)  Don’t talk about your ex.  This is the fastest way NOT to get a second date.
12)  Don’t be late
13)  Be yourself.
14)  Don’t act desperate, even if you are.
15)  Pay attention.   Listen for inconsistencies in the conversation.  Watch for bad behaviour.  Ie  drinks too much, aggressive or confrontational.
16)  Don’t talk about your weight and dieting.
17)  Don’t talk about your girlfriends.
18)  Turn your mobile phone off, or have it on vibrate, but DO NOT answer it.
19)  Keep your first meeting short. 
20)  Be confident.   This is an attractive characteristic.

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Free Online Dating- the latest craze in Dating

Free online dating is fast catching a fancy among all my friends. They are regular to free online dating and have met their current boyfriends and girlfriends through the dating sites.

Personally, I feel it’s a pretty cool system. You get to meet people from different parts of world. You can decide which profile matches with your preference and also you can go at your own tempo. It’s not like the bars where most of the time it’s a creeper or a drunk walking up to you asking if they can buy you a drink. If your are turned down by someone here, there’s no need to get embarrassed about as no one is watching. That’s another advantage in free online dating.

One dating site that is quite popular among all my friends is Kisscafe.com. The best thing about Kisscafe is first of all it’s free. Then its webpage has been designed to captivate the viewers. It provides you the liberty to customize your own profile, has the blog and chat facilities, and has a huge database of interesting profiles to choose from.

It’s been a while since I am single. Having watched my friends getting succeeded in free online dating; now I even consider trying it . After all there is nothing to lose and who knows maybe I’ll find my perfect match there. So wish me luck!

Growing Online Dating Relationships

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1.    Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2.    Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3.    Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence. 

4.    Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

Online Dating - How to make a match.

A pretty new photo of yourself should be used in your profile. You will obtain more serious impression among those who search for a partner. Describe yourself in the best manner. What kind of person would you characterize yourself? What do you like to do? That is essential.

Don't show up with personal information like email-address and phone-number. Likely as not you want to know more about your date through correspondence using the dating-site. If you receive an unpleasant reply, you should take no notice of the sender. At worst write an email to the owner of the website.

Don't lie or exaggerate when you try to describe yourself. Don't write anything about your defeats and bad experiences. Emphasize your good qualities. Your first date, when you decide to meet each other, should occur carefully and gradually.

Realize that some men make a copy of their message for distribution among several women. The more specific you are, describing what you want, the fewer replies. But it is an increasing chance that you will meet someone that suit you.

Be patient. It may take a lot of time to find your dream-partner - also at the cyberspace. But one day it may come true.

100 Questions to Ask Your Valentine

Looking to get to know your valentine date better? Running out of things to talk to your sweetie about? First date jitters and don’t know what to talk about? Well, here are 100 questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing is to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question they don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not willing to talk about a certain subject. 1. What was your best job? 2. What were your worst jobs? 3. Tell me all the places you worked 4. Tell me about your best friend 5. Tell me about your family 6. Tell me about your relatives 7. What was your first car? 8. Favorite movie star? 9. Favorite entertainer? 10. Favorite song? 11. What were your life changing moments? 12. First girlfriend/boyfriend? 13. First kiss? 14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done? 15. Have you ever been arrested? 16. Political affiliation? 17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t? 18. Have you used drugs? 19. Do you like to shop? 20. Best way to relax? 21. Favorite thing to do alone? 22. Ever had a one night stand? 23. Do you save money? 24. What hobbies to you spend money on? 25. If you found a $100 what would you do? 26. Do you want children/more children? 27. Are you a good parent? 28. What makes a good parent? 29. Are you romantic? 30. Ever loose a pet? 31. Dog or cat? 32. Pets growing up? 33. Sleep in the nude? 34. Favorite midnight snack? 35. Do you exercise? 36. Did you ever see your parents making love? 37. Peanut butter and what? 38. What is one food you will never give up? 39. What is a food you can live without? 40. Favorite drink? 41. Perfect day? 42. How many cds do you own? 43. How many dvds to you own? 44. Favorite thing to spend money on? 45. What is the weirdest thing about you? 46. What is on your bedside table? 47. Are you cheap or thrifty? 48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time? 49. Grades in high school? 50. Favorite teacher? 51. Relatives in jail? 52. Toppings on pizza? 53. Black or white? 54. Glass half full or half empty? 55. Ever been to a food shelf? 56. Ever milked a cow? 57. Ever tipped a cow? 58. Bath or shower? 59. Mountains or the beach? 60. Plane, train or automobile? 61. Favorite all time movie? 62. Worse movie you have ever seen? 63. Best concert you have been to? 64. Beer, wine or coffee? 65. Best vacation? 66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do? 67. Worse vacation? 68. Three places you would love to visit? 69. Worse boss? 70. If you could do anything what would it be? 71. Super powers you wish you had? 72. Ever had a massage? 73. Ideal romantic dinner? 74. Dumbest purchase you ever made? 75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke? 76. Ever sold blood? 77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price? 78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine? 79. Ever won the lottery? 80. What would you do with your lottery winnings? 81. Are you a neat freak? 82. Can’t stand being around people who_________? 83. Crowds or small groups? 84. How old do you want to live to? 85. Loose your sight or hearing? 86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex? 87. Pet peeves? 88. Most annoying habit? 89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex? 90. Major turn offs? 91. Tattoos? 93. Piercings? 94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you? 95. Computer geek? 96. Trekee? 97. Play an instrument? 98. Been in a band? 99. Most embarrassing moment? 100. Nude beach yes or no