Dating Do's and Dont's - Getting a second date

First Date:  Do’s and Don’ts

Remember that you only get one chance to make the first impression.

1)  Ensure that you are listening as well as speaking.
2)  Smile
3)  Maintain eye contact, but don't stare - this is an agressive act.
4)  Don’t spend the entire date talking about yourself.   Ask questions about his job, family, friends, goals, pets, hobbies and interests.  You will get all the information you need to know if you ask questions and then listen.
5)  Don’t ask yourself is the man I want to marry on your first date.  Don't look at her as if she has no clothes on.
6)  Be safe.  Use your good judgement.   Always remain in public and take your cell phone.
7)  Make sure you tell a friend where you are going.
8)  Don’t get drunk.  You will more likely to make bad judgements.
9)  Look your best.
10)  Don’t give away too much personal information.
11)  Don’t talk about your ex.  This is the fastest way NOT to get a second date.
12)  Don’t be late
13)  Be yourself.
14)  Don’t act desperate, even if you are.
15)  Pay attention.   Listen for inconsistencies in the conversation.  Watch for bad behaviour.  Ie  drinks too much, aggressive or confrontational.
16)  Don’t talk about your weight and dieting.
17)  Don’t talk about your girlfriends.
18)  Turn your mobile phone off, or have it on vibrate, but DO NOT answer it.
19)  Keep your first meeting short. 
20)  Be confident.   This is an attractive characteristic.

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Online Dating - How to make a match.

A pretty new photo of yourself should be used in your profile. You will obtain more serious impression among those who search for a partner. Describe yourself in the best manner. What kind of person would you characterize yourself? What do you like to do? That is essential.

Don't show up with personal information like email-address and phone-number. Likely as not you want to know more about your date through correspondence using the dating-site. If you receive an unpleasant reply, you should take no notice of the sender. At worst write an email to the owner of the website.

Don't lie or exaggerate when you try to describe yourself. Don't write anything about your defeats and bad experiences. Emphasize your good qualities. Your first date, when you decide to meet each other, should occur carefully and gradually.

Realize that some men make a copy of their message for distribution among several women. The more specific you are, describing what you want, the fewer replies. But it is an increasing chance that you will meet someone that suit you.

Be patient. It may take a lot of time to find your dream-partner - also at the cyberspace. But one day it may come true.