Dating Advice: You Have To Make a Woman Feel

You can buy a woman flowers for the next ten years and it won’t matter unless you make her FEEL an attraction to you. Women don’t care how things work; they care how things make them feel. In all of the romance novels and soap operas women have been devouring since they were kids, the leading males are always untamable, strong men who sweep women off their feet. 

This is the quality that many “jerks” have. Women don’t like the fact that the guy is actually a jerk – it’s just that jerks have a tendency to have more of this primal, uncontrollable dominance that the weaker, “nice” guys don’t have. The sweet guy thing works only when a woman is in desperate need of attention. It can work with some women, but it will only temporarily keep her happy.

They can’t help it fellas. They are simply responding to Mother Nature. Estrogen is a drug that induces feeling. It makes women want and need to feel everything. Testosterone is a hormone of aggression/achievement and dominance. The sooner we realize and accept these facts, the easier time we’ll have understanding the dating world.

Double Your Dating Confidence

The first step to becoming the confident guy you’ve always wanted to be is to close your eyes and imagine every aspect of his character. Without a very vivid picture of who you want to become, you’ll never become him.

I want you to take a moment to ponder each one of these questions: How does he walk? How does he move? What does his voice sound like? Does he hold his head high? How does he dress? I want you to go through every aspect of his character. Get an extremely clear vision in your head of this fictional character. Now I want you to say to yourself, “If I can see him, I can be him”. Take your face and put it on this character. I want you to brand this image into your subconscious. In your mind, get used to walking around like this guy. Get used to talking like him.

Just as you wouldn’t expect to be the best piano player in the world without practicing, you shouldn’t expect to be a “cool”, confident guy without practicing. Become comfortable with the new guy you’ve created. I want you to really embrace the concept that you can be anyone you want. No guy was born a “ladies’ man”. Practice this visualization for at least 5 minutes a day and you’ll become more and more comfortable being this “character”.

100 Questions to Ask Your Valentine

Looking to get to know your valentine date better? Running out of things to talk to your sweetie about? First date jitters and don’t know what to talk about? Well, here are 100 questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing is to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question they don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not willing to talk about a certain subject. 1. What was your best job? 2. What were your worst jobs? 3. Tell me all the places you worked 4. Tell me about your best friend 5. Tell me about your family 6. Tell me about your relatives 7. What was your first car? 8. Favorite movie star? 9. Favorite entertainer? 10. Favorite song? 11. What were your life changing moments? 12. First girlfriend/boyfriend? 13. First kiss? 14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done? 15. Have you ever been arrested? 16. Political affiliation? 17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t? 18. Have you used drugs? 19. Do you like to shop? 20. Best way to relax? 21. Favorite thing to do alone? 22. Ever had a one night stand? 23. Do you save money? 24. What hobbies to you spend money on? 25. If you found a $100 what would you do? 26. Do you want children/more children? 27. Are you a good parent? 28. What makes a good parent? 29. Are you romantic? 30. Ever loose a pet? 31. Dog or cat? 32. Pets growing up? 33. Sleep in the nude? 34. Favorite midnight snack? 35. Do you exercise? 36. Did you ever see your parents making love? 37. Peanut butter and what? 38. What is one food you will never give up? 39. What is a food you can live without? 40. Favorite drink? 41. Perfect day? 42. How many cds do you own? 43. How many dvds to you own? 44. Favorite thing to spend money on? 45. What is the weirdest thing about you? 46. What is on your bedside table? 47. Are you cheap or thrifty? 48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time? 49. Grades in high school? 50. Favorite teacher? 51. Relatives in jail? 52. Toppings on pizza? 53. Black or white? 54. Glass half full or half empty? 55. Ever been to a food shelf? 56. Ever milked a cow? 57. Ever tipped a cow? 58. Bath or shower? 59. Mountains or the beach? 60. Plane, train or automobile? 61. Favorite all time movie? 62. Worse movie you have ever seen? 63. Best concert you have been to? 64. Beer, wine or coffee? 65. Best vacation? 66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do? 67. Worse vacation? 68. Three places you would love to visit? 69. Worse boss? 70. If you could do anything what would it be? 71. Super powers you wish you had? 72. Ever had a massage? 73. Ideal romantic dinner? 74. Dumbest purchase you ever made? 75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke? 76. Ever sold blood? 77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price? 78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine? 79. Ever won the lottery? 80. What would you do with your lottery winnings? 81. Are you a neat freak? 82. Can’t stand being around people who_________? 83. Crowds or small groups? 84. How old do you want to live to? 85. Loose your sight or hearing? 86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex? 87. Pet peeves? 88. Most annoying habit? 89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex? 90. Major turn offs? 91. Tattoos? 93. Piercings? 94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you? 95. Computer geek? 96. Trekee? 97. Play an instrument? 98. Been in a band? 99. Most embarrassing moment? 100. Nude beach yes or no