Minggu, 11 Agustus 2013

Love - Why Two People Love Each Other?

Why do two people love each other? Why do we need someone to love? Why cannot we love ourselves and exist alone? And what is that chemistry that a couple loves each other? Why both should love each other, and no body else? Love is truly a mystery.

The first reason is of course the passion one feels for the other. Call it hormones, mind, heart, emotions or whatever, one falls in love with another person and cannot live without him/her. Physical beauty is not the sole criteria in romantic passionate love. A very beautiful girl can passionately fall in love with an ordinary looking man to the surprise of all. There is something more that is yet to be explored. Ask a lover about why he/she loves her beloved and you will never get a logical answer. Love does not measure qualities, nor sets any standards. Love happens.

Sometimes the love arises out of appreciation of qualities of the other. This love is different than romantic love, but can be equally magnetic. You may get attracted to some persons singing so much that you want to be with him/her at all times. It can be any quality, but it is the appreciation of quality that brings forth this love. In this case the love is passionate love with that quality.

In some cases two persons find so many things alike between each other that they believe they are soul mates. Made for each other, these lovers are bound by the common qualities. What ever may be the reason for falling in love, please fall in love because it is incomparable.


Dating Do's and Dont's - Getting a second date

First Date:  Do’s and Don’ts

Remember that you only get one chance to make the first impression.

1)  Ensure that you are listening as well as speaking.
2)  Smile
3)  Maintain eye contact, but don't stare - this is an agressive act.
4)  Don’t spend the entire date talking about yourself.   Ask questions about his job, family, friends, goals, pets, hobbies and interests.  You will get all the information you need to know if you ask questions and then listen.
5)  Don’t ask yourself is the man I want to marry on your first date.  Don't look at her as if she has no clothes on.
6)  Be safe.  Use your good judgement.   Always remain in public and take your cell phone.
7)  Make sure you tell a friend where you are going.
8)  Don’t get drunk.  You will more likely to make bad judgements.
9)  Look your best.
10)  Don’t give away too much personal information.
11)  Don’t talk about your ex.  This is the fastest way NOT to get a second date.
12)  Don’t be late
13)  Be yourself.
14)  Don’t act desperate, even if you are.
15)  Pay attention.   Listen for inconsistencies in the conversation.  Watch for bad behaviour.  Ie  drinks too much, aggressive or confrontational.
16)  Don’t talk about your weight and dieting.
17)  Don’t talk about your girlfriends.
18)  Turn your mobile phone off, or have it on vibrate, but DO NOT answer it.
19)  Keep your first meeting short. 
20)  Be confident.   This is an attractive characteristic.

www.romance4millionaires.com.au


What To Do If Your Dating Partner Becomes Cold?

Have you ever had this experience? You have dated some body few times. Both of you had great time together. You are making plans for the future. Everything seems to go smoothly. And suddenly your dating partner goes cold. The phones are not answered. The mails are not responded. No meetings are discussed, as if past never existed. Why this happened?

This happens with many of us. Out of two partners, one takes a unilateral decision to break away and does not inform the other. There may be many reasons for going cold, including finding some body else. But is it worthwhile chasing the cold date any more?
No. But most of the break away partners don’t say so clearly and the change in relationship is not spelled out. That causes problem for a certain time. This is surely unethical. One should never behave like this. But you can do nothing about it.

You have no option but to wait for some time and then ask straight question. Are we separate now? Are you no longer interested in meeting me? After getting a clear yes, begin again. Don’t ponder and worry over why the earlier person behaved so strangely. Some people are like that. Imagine, if you had got married to somebody so unethical and unreliable?

This kind of behavior certainly shocks. But there is no use. Try to recover as soon as you can. This time, be more careful selecting your new dating partner and hope for the best. Despite many failures, success always comes. That is your right. Please claim it.

Love quiz- Will you Break-Up Soon?

Love and break-up are two sides of the same coin. It is invariably break-up after love. For most of us it seems inevitable now a days. The question is only of time. Some couples break-up after many years, while some break-up after few months. What about you? Are you nearing a break-up? Quiz yourself and find out if your relationship of love is on brink now. Quiz and find out if the symptoms are already appearing?

How to find out if the break-up is due anytime now? Earlier you enjoyed being with your partner. Is it the same now, or you want to have more of personal space and want to be more with your friends? Quiz your buying habits for your partner. Earlier you gave lot of thought and money was not the only consideration to buy anything for your partner. Are you calculating money now a days? Do you let some occasion go without making a present?  Quiz yourself about your talking habits. Earlier you never uttered a word that could hurt your partner. What about now? Are you as careful in selecting your words?

These are small indicators that will tell you the subtle changes that are taking place in your relationship. Watch for these changes and find out if you are sliding down towards an inevitable break-up?

Quiz yourself about your love, your care, your relationships and your desire for each other. Small quizzes will give you hints about large changes. Quiz is a great tool to find out about your life.

Sabtu, 10 Agustus 2013

Love - Do You Let Your Partner Know Why You Love Them?

Do you ever tell your partner about the good qualities that they have? Do you tell them why you love them? Do you make them feel good by telling them about why they are so lovely? Do you make them happy by telling them what you like about them? If not, please begin. Bring a fresh air in your relationship and let your partner feel good.

Try telling them few things. They can be - You never make me feel bad. You are made for me and I am made for you. You have a beautiful body. I love your hairstyle. When I look into your eyes, I swoon with ecstasy. I wait to hear your voice. Your choice of words is excellent. I wait to be with you. I enjoy being with you. I wait to fall asleep so that I can meet you again in my dreams. I love you because you are a beautiful human being. You are so intelligent I get floored. I want to be with you all the time. I keep on thinking of you while working. I think of you at all the times. After meeting you, my life has changed. I never dreamt that i would be so lucky to meet somebody so good.


In our relationships, we should always be very liberal with our praise. We should be very stingy with blames and criticism. Any word that can hurt should be avoided. Any word that can make your partner feel good should be repeatedly used. Make your relationship heavenly and not a hell. Let your partner feel why you love them so much and how they are so lovely.

Jumat, 09 Agustus 2013

Test To Find Out If You Love Yourself?

Most of us are searching for love. We all hear so much about love, watch it in the movies and listen to songs of love. Somehow that kind of love does not happen to us. Whether such passionate romantic love can exist in today's world? That is a big question. Even if you fall in such love, it will phase out after some time leaving a vacuum.

How about loving ourselves? Most of us do a lot of self beating. We regret our decisions, strain our bodies to make achievements, stress ourselves at most of the times about something or else. We give no peace and love to ourselves. Look at a child in the lap of mother. The child is at peace and is totally protected by mother. The kid is totally relaxed. How about mothering yourself?

How about forgetting your worries for a certain period during the day? Just relax and pamper your mind and body? Only relax. Relax and let all the strain go away. Think of nothing. No worries, no tension, no goals, no achievements, no projects, no exams, no promotions. Only yourself. Love yourself for what you are. No criticism. No self beating. No memories of good or bad. Only love for yourself. Let that love Overwhelm you with total peace. Love yourself.

We act brutally with ourselves many times. We don't need others to do that, because we do it wonderfully well ourselves. Are you one of such people? How much do you love yourself?


Kamis, 08 Agustus 2013

Dating Advice: You Have To Make a Woman Feel

You can buy a woman flowers for the next ten years and it won’t matter unless you make her FEEL an attraction to you. Women don’t care how things work; they care how things make them feel. In all of the romance novels and soap operas women have been devouring since they were kids, the leading males are always untamable, strong men who sweep women off their feet. 

This is the quality that many “jerks” have. Women don’t like the fact that the guy is actually a jerk – it’s just that jerks have a tendency to have more of this primal, uncontrollable dominance that the weaker, “nice” guys don’t have. The sweet guy thing works only when a woman is in desperate need of attention. It can work with some women, but it will only temporarily keep her happy.

They can’t help it fellas. They are simply responding to Mother Nature. Estrogen is a drug that induces feeling. It makes women want and need to feel everything. Testosterone is a hormone of aggression/achievement and dominance. The sooner we realize and accept these facts, the easier time we’ll have understanding the dating world.


Love - Not Living By Values May Hurt Love

We profess some values and act against them. I will come to that shortly, but add here that our not living by values may be hurting our love very badly. When we look for answers to our lost love, we must find out if we had violated our values. Let me give you some examples. What are the values you love? Honesty, speaking truth, helping others, understanding others, caring for others, being compassionate and many other values come in the values list of a majority. What about living by these values?

How many of us do not lie? How many of us behave carelessly towards others/ how many of us cheat others for small gains? We are ready to sacrifice most of our values to reach our material goals. We justify all our actions on the way, but deep inside there is no peace or satisfaction in our heart. We know that we are different to what we began with.

Is the same happening with our love relationship? In love, we say- I will care for you. In love we promise total faithfulness. In love, we promise that we will sacrifice our comfort to make our beloved comfortable. In love we promise many things including never hurting our darling.

When it comes to living by these values, we break most of them. We bring down our love to a give and take and justify our wrong actions with every possible argument. But the end result is death of love. After that we blame our darling for breaking love. That is our tragedy.

Rabu, 07 Agustus 2013

Birthday Ecards- Send One To Your Sweetheart Everyday To Get Excitement

Birthday means to take a birth. I forget what I was yesterday and I get birth again today. If you think of everyday as a birthday, because today is the first day of our remaining life, are you wrong? How about telling this to your sweetheart and sending an Ecard to wish happy birthday everyday?

After all what is love? Love means excitement. Love means to bring passion in life. Love means to do something new everyday to make your daring excited and fall in more love with you. Love is like a river that is flowing with full force and cuts through every obstacle in its path. How to create that love? One has to keep innovating. One has to think of new exciting ideas.

Innovate with birthday Ecards. Send one everyday to him/her and add a beautiful thought of your own. Let it be the first mail they open in the morning. Make the day for your darling everyday. As I said, innovate. It will cost you nothing. At no cost, you bring so much excitement in your love that others will envy you. Begin today. Is it not your darling’s birthday? Send a birthday Ecard now. Bring passion and excitement in your love life at every moment.

Love has to be kept alive at every moment. Love is not a pond that will remain still, but a river. Love needs to flow. Love needs expression and passion. Use romantic birthday Ecards everyday to bring lovely passion in your love life. Find out how?

Dating - Not Asking For Immediate Results Is Better

Today, most of the daters want immediate results after a date. They want to meet their dream date immediately. They want to fall in love immediately. They want to like each other immediately. There is hurry in dating. There is a demand that we must get good date immediately. This is like interviewing candidates for a position in your organization. You wish to get the best candidate as the first candidate and get frustrated if you don't get one after interviewing many. That frustration either makes you drop the idea of searching or you try to fit at least one candidate in the slot. But that will fail with disastrous results.

Are you doing something similar in dating? Do you not accept disappointments easily? Do you want your candy immediately like a child? That can lead to complications. You have to define your requirements and if you find that your date and you don't match, you have to drop him/her. You don't have to create excuses and fit him/her with you. That may lead to long-term pain.

Let us be sure. You are looking for a life partner. You have only one life and you must try and get the best partner you can to have happiness and satisfaction. Give dating enough time. Date few people before you decide about one. Make sure that your head is ruling you and not heart. Don't ask for immediate results. That can be painful over time.


Selasa, 06 Agustus 2013

Russian brides and american grooms

Why do the Ex-USSR women search for a husband away? Everything is not that easy as it looks like! A lot of masses think that this is happening due to the existence confusion, husbands-alcoholics that have been left, suppose that they were left for bucks, "smart" men think that they were searching for a cozy and rich life. But nobody wants to see the problem itself! The real issue is that Ex- USSR woman while leaving its state takes the gene pool of the country with her! Every boy that was born abroad would be considered as a part of this country already! The child would work for wealth and prosperity of other country, and his children will bring a more significant benefit to a foreign people! And on the question "why" humans will have a simple and convenient for all the people around answer, although the truthful matter is about ourselves. What kind of girls leave the borders of their native country seeking for a spouse overseas? What are girls looking in unknown places? TheRussian women whom are leaving our Motherland, do it not because they are searching for a better existance overseas, they do it because they seek a good (from the cultural opinion) existance for themselves and theirs future children! And this is the truth that should be recognized.


Double Your Dating Confidence

The first step to becoming the confident guy you’ve always wanted to be is to close your eyes and imagine every aspect of his character. Without a very vivid picture of who you want to become, you’ll never become him.

I want you to take a moment to ponder each one of these questions: How does he walk? How does he move? What does his voice sound like? Does he hold his head high? How does he dress? I want you to go through every aspect of his character. Get an extremely clear vision in your head of this fictional character. Now I want you to say to yourself, “If I can see him, I can be him”. Take your face and put it on this character. I want you to brand this image into your subconscious. In your mind, get used to walking around like this guy. Get used to talking like him.

Just as you wouldn’t expect to be the best piano player in the world without practicing, you shouldn’t expect to be a “cool”, confident guy without practicing. Become comfortable with the new guy you’ve created. I want you to really embrace the concept that you can be anyone you want. No guy was born a “ladies’ man”. Practice this visualization for at least 5 minutes a day and you’ll become more and more comfortable being this “character”.


Senin, 05 Agustus 2013

Feel the excitement through Free singles club!

Hi all. My name is Jack. I am in my final year in University. Am really excited as soon I will be a graduate and will start working . I am single. In fact i always like being single and be in myself. That’s the reason i spent the last 3 years of my university life trying to avoid girls. Believe me life is quite exciting and adventurous if you are single and free.

I always had a secrete desire to travel and visit many places, but never got the opportunity to do that. But now i have decided to travel across North America for a year before I settle down and commit to a full time job. I plan to start from my city and work my way up to New York, then cut straight across and get into California But traveling alone can be quite boring. So may be I will just look for some other singles to join me on my expedition. In fact I have heard a lot about the free singles in California and I am really looking forward to meet a few on my way.


But I am a bit skeptical about the expenses. I’m only bringing 800$ per year from the part time job which I feel is not enough. So I need to do odd jobs here and there to increase the earning. May be it sounds like a stupid plan, but I know it’s gonna work, it has to as i want to travel and see different parts of the world. So wish me luck guys, on my expedition that I would soon begin.


Minggu, 04 Agustus 2013

Dating Tips – Found Someone Online? Ready to Date?

Here are some tips that may help once you have found your match and are ready to go on a date:

– Be honest, be yourself. Don't exaggerate or stretch the truth. Once you're suspected of doing so you will lose your credibility.

– Don't surprise your date, with a horror flick or an exotic meal especially on the first date. Keep in mind that your tastes may not be equal to your date's.

– Be on time. Being late is inconsiderate, it leaves a bad impression. If your date is late, be patient and understanding, there may be a legitimate excuse.

– Calm yourself by telling yourself you're excited, not nervous.

– If your date compliments you, don't brush it off or say something that doesn't make it worthy. Instead of putting yourself down, say thank you.

– Look at what's inside. Don't just focus on looks. If you're preoccupied with just physical appearance and you dismiss your date, you might miss out on the great inner qualities they may possess.

– Be open to the ideas your companion might have on how to spend your date.

– Don't be overly aggressive with your date. Don't come on too hard.

– Make the first date brief. It's better to keep them wanting more, than looking for a way to escape.

– Keep the conversation topics light.

– Try to find out if your date has platonic relationships with members of the opposite sex. That's a good sign they are able to relate to you.

– Go out there and have fun with it.


Sabtu, 03 Agustus 2013

Dating Test - How Romantic You Are?

Most of the people on the dating scene are looking for great partners. Someone who will fulfill the vacuum in their life and heart. Someone very smart, intelligent and loving. In the age of competition it is not easy unless you show innovative approach. Don't take me wrong. I am not asking you to create a drama or anything of that type, but creating  mood that will get you your heart's desire.

How romantic are you? Have you tested yourself on that? Let me ask you a simple question. Does a rainbow look romantic to you? What does a butterfly make you think of? What happens when you walk on the fallen flowers in a garden? Does watching sunset make you think of a poetry? Do you read poetry? Do you enjoy it? Have you ever stared at the eyes of anyone of opposite sex without uttering a word for a minute? If you have done any of these , you are a romantic at heart. You will win the game.

Most of us believe that dating means expensive dinners, visiting theatres, watching movie and so on. You can never create romance at any of these places. For making your partner feel romantic and passionate, you have to go to a location where nature dances with joy. You have to feel part of that nature and enjoy the love that nature gives without asking anything in return. Sing a small poem to your date and you make your day.


Jumat, 02 Agustus 2013

Dating Dilemma of a shy guy

Hi guys. My life is messed up. I feel like a loser when it comes to have girlfriend. Can’t tell you the trauma I go through when I see all my friends going out on date with the girls they meet at bars and pubs .you will usually find me sitting in a corner with my drink and feeling miserable on my self.  I am not bad looking, am quite affable and caring in nature too, but because of my shyness I won’t able to approach any girl or talk face- -to-face to them if someone approaches me.
 
  I feel really embarrassed before my friends. Some of my friends even tried to arrange a blind date for me, but it never seemed to work out.  If I am remember, last time I dated was may be more than three years ago. But it’s high time to try for dating.  I need to get rid of my shyness. I don’t want to be labeled as the guy who never gets a date, that’s kind of too upsetting.

So guys, tonight I am going out on a date with a girl my friend dated a couple of moths back. It’s a blind date as I have never met this girl. I’m too nervous; this date has to go well.  I need to find a girl that I can say I’m dating, that I can say I am going steady with. I’m tired of always being the left out one when my friends and I go out.  So every body, please wish me luck!