Rabu, 31 Juli 2013

Love Quiz- Do Looks Matter To You More?

What is love? What is attraction? Why do we love someone? Why do we say that we love someone? Why do not we say that we like someone or are getting attracted to someone? This is all because love is becoming a common word to be used for all kinds of attachments and relationships. Have you quizzed yourself about how much looks matter to you in love?

Will you love an ugly looking person even if she/he has every other quality in plenty? Or you will accept somebody better looking but missing in some qualities? What if you are told that the best looking person of the opposite sex has fallen for you and wants love in return? When you develop relationship, you find that person missing in many essential qualities and values that you respect. What will you do?

Quiz yourself about your relationships. Many of the relationships break because we are attracted by looks but as we get closer we find the other person difficult and break the relationship. It happens with most of us. We all go for looks in the beginning. Very rarely, we give points for other qualities in a logical manner. We look at a attractive person and say-I am in love. Quiz yourself and you will realize why many of your relationships broke? We may deny that. But the main attraction is always great looks. Quiz yourself about this and probably you will come to know more about what are your priorities in relationships and love.


Love Quiz - How To Attract Love?

Who does not wish to attract love? All of us want to attract the best person to ourselves. Am I right? We all wish that the best specimen of the opposite sex became our mate. Let us quiz, if you can do that and find out how you can do that.


Love quiz- what attracts you? Let me ask you this- what attracts you? That answer will give answer to our first question. A person who looks very smart, a person who looks very handsome/beautiful, a person who shows care and love for us, a person who is very intelligent, a person who is compassionate, a person who is well read, a person who is independent minded, a person who can make others laugh, a person who is not selfish, a person who is not greedy, a person who looks honest - these are some qualities that will attract you. Am I on the right track?


Quiz if you can develop these qualities- all of us want many things in life. The question arises- are we ready to work towards that? Most of us want to continue in our old way and want different results. Let me repeat - almost of us want to continue in the old way but want different results than before. That will never happen. For getting different results than before we have to act differently. Develop the attributes you are looking for in others and you will attract the best from the opposite sex.

Selasa, 30 Juli 2013

Free Online Dating- the latest craze in Dating

Free online dating is fast catching a fancy among all my friends. They are regular to free online dating and have met their current boyfriends and girlfriends through the dating sites.

Personally, I feel it’s a pretty cool system. You get to meet people from different parts of world. You can decide which profile matches with your preference and also you can go at your own tempo. It’s not like the bars where most of the time it’s a creeper or a drunk walking up to you asking if they can buy you a drink. If your are turned down by someone here, there’s no need to get embarrassed about as no one is watching. That’s another advantage in free online dating.

One dating site that is quite popular among all my friends is Kisscafe.com. The best thing about Kisscafe is first of all it’s free. Then its webpage has been designed to captivate the viewers. It provides you the liberty to customize your own profile, has the blog and chat facilities, and has a huge database of interesting profiles to choose from.

It’s been a while since I am single. Having watched my friends getting succeeded in free online dating; now I even consider trying it . After all there is nothing to lose and who knows maybe I’ll find my perfect match there. So wish me luck!


Do You Attract The Opposite Sex?

All of us want to get a great mate. We want to settle for nothing less than the best of the specie. Are we having the personality to attract the opposite sex? Do we have that magnetism to pull them near us? That is a big question and once we get how to do that, the world is ours.

Let us begin with raw appeal. There is something called animal appeal. Some of us have that and some don't. This appeal has to do with our voice tone, our walk, our talking style, our smell of the body, our body and our personality. Take care of these and you are half way through. Suppose you are a woman. You are asked to join a group of hundreds of women all standing in a queue. Then some men are allowed to view all of you. Will you beat all the women and attract attention of every man towards yourself? If you can manage that, you are a winner. Same with men.

What about understanding the personality of the opposite sex? Take a teacher. She is trained to handle many children and knows about how to teach them. Do you know some thing about how to handle the opposite sex? Have you studied about them? If not, please pick up some good guides and do that as soon as possible.

Making yourself attractive is the first requirement. Once you can do that, you will manage to get any one as your date. Good Luck.


Love Messages

Love, the very word brings forth feelings of warmth. Love, a relationship, which makes us whole. A companion with whom we share all our emotions, our life, our thoughts, our body, our everything. That is love and lucky are those who fall in love.

During the initial phase of love, there is a tremendous passion and a desire to keep on sharing everything. Keep on telling about how one loves their beloved in so many different ways. In this phase, lovers speak of flowers, stars, moon, and so many other objects that one can find to define love.

All of us have our own style of sending love messages. Some write their own poems. Some send small notes. Some send very long letters and some search for poems that can reflect their emotions. Searching for gifts, and sending messages, meeting, enjoying life together, and so many other such activities mark the initial phase of love. Love is indeed mysterious because you will find poems being written by those about whom you had never suspected this. Your most ordinary looking practical gardener will develop dreamy eyes and start sending love notes after falling in love! PG Wodehouse wrote about this in most of his stories with great fun and understanding.

The best part of love messages arrives after many years. Show a lover what he/she did many years ago and they will themselves not believe that they wrote all that gibberish. That is love.


Love Test - What If You Love Your Friend?

You are friends and you enjoy your friendship. You behave with each other as you do with your other friends. One day you find that you have begun having different feelings for your friend. You like him/her more than a friend and are developing romantic love. What should you do?

You want to tell your friend about your feelings. But you are not very sure about them yourself. Have you really crossed the relationship of friendship and developed romantic love? You are thinking about that and the more you think the more you get confused. Emotions are like that. They can play havoc with us.

After lot of deliberation, you have decided that the feelings of love are true and figments of your imagination. Should you tell your friend? What if he/she does not reciprocate? What will happen to the friendship?

This is a difficult situation. You don't wish to sacrifice your friendship, but if your friend does not reciprocate that will happen. And there is no way of finding his/her feelings indirectly. You have to do it yourself. What should be done? Please ask. Please tell about your feelings and ask if your feelings are reciprocated. If yes, you are lucky. If not, let the friendship suffer. You cannot continue loving someone without finding out your friend’s feelings. That will be much more painful.


Senin, 29 Juli 2013

Love - Should It Necessarily Get Destroyed?

Recently I saw a post by a man on a forum saying that he was married for twenty-seven years, but still could not stop thinking of his wife all the time. He wanted to be with her and used to think of her even during work. Some people suggested that he should consult a therapist. Can you see the tragic question and the answers?

Here is a man who loves his wife after twenty-seven years. He has heard so much about marital fights and break-ups that he thinks something is seriously wrong with him. It is like saying that I am healthy and do not fall sick at all. Please advise. and some people may say, please go and meet a Doctor immediately to find out why you are not falling sick and please fall sick as early as you can.

We are living in negativities. We are losing our balance of mind and our thinking ability. Why should we make ourselves as a number and wonder if we are not falling the statistical groups and results that predict doom for a marriage after twenty-seven years. The man should be rather delighted and thank God. His wife should feel very lucky and both should begin helping others keep their love alive for a long period. Such a blessing is rare in todays world. But it is the negative discussion about break-ups and divorces that make a sane person ask such questions.


Growing Online Dating Relationships

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1.    Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2.    Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3.    Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence. 

4.    Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.


Online Dating

As the Online Dating market keeps on growing day by day, there is more and more of a gap to fill these services. This is where www.thedatebox.net comes in. It allows private advertisers to add their personal profile to a national database which anyone can search.

Users can upload text and images as well as any extra information about yourself. each listing is added to the site for one year and for this option, users are charged a specific rate.

Your personal profile will be seen by many more people from all over the country, not just in your local area. You can place an advert reaching a much bigger user base at a fraction of the cost!
By placing your listing as a featured advertisement you will be placed on the featured list as well as the front page of the site. It increases your visibility, leading to more members viewing your profile. It is also important to have at least one photo on your profile as this increases view dramatically
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Minggu, 28 Juli 2013

Five Tips For Your First Date

Let’s face it…first dates are tough and the majority will end before they even really start. Here is a list the five most important things both men and women should keep in mind. A first date is simply two people getting together to find out more about each other…its an interview where you determine if the other person will be a good fit for you. Many of these things may seem like common sense but you will be surprised with the things some people are capable of.

Top Five Things for Men

1. Listen to your date. Listening to your date is not the same thing as waiting for her to pause so that you can begin speaking).
2. Be chivalrous…yes that means you’ll have to open the car door for them.
3. Don’t get drunk. If you’re not sure you can, just stay away from alcohol all together.
4. Always be on time.
5. Play it safe and stay away from the religious and/or political topics…this can lead to disaster.


Top Five Things for Women

1. Say thank you if he does something nice and/or unusual.
2. If you’re not interested and rather be friends, just say it. The guy may not want to hear it but trust me, it’s better (and easier) now than later on.
3. Don’t get drunk (see #3 for men).
4. Laugh at his jokes even if they are awfull.
5. Make lots of eye contact and smile.


Quiz For Men - Do You Know what women Prefer - Looks Or Money?

Men and women have different roles in the society. Both the sexes also have different choices. Talking about gender equality cannot ignore the biological differences. Gender equality does not mean that women and men like or dislike same things or have similar aspiration or behavior.

What do women prefer- Looks or money? If you ask some men around you about what they desire in women, good looks may come out as a common answer. What about women? Does a good-looking man attract women or they are more attracted by a man having more money and a man with ambitions? Please ask some women and you will be surprised to know that even very good looking women are not necessarily looking for a partner with great looks, if he has no money. Women desire men with money, power and ambitions more than looks.

If you are a man with ok looks, bur with good amount of money and are thinking of doing much more in your profession, you may be chosen by a real good looking woman.
This does not mean a man who does not keep himself clean or has little sense of clothes or etiquettes. That is a must, but you need not look like a person who can go to any competition and win it on looks. Of you have money and ambitions; you can have your pick of woman.


onlinedating

Hi. My name is Lance. I’m a handsome guy with medium built figure and height. I feel that my life is hanging upside down now because of my super shy nature. Although, I get along pretty much well with others and have a bunch of close friends, I feel freezed when I come across a girl. I can’t tell you the trauma of watching my friends going out on date with the girls they meet at bars and pubs. i will be usually found sitting in a corner of bar with my drink and feeling miserable on my self.

 I feel really embarrassed before my friends due to my shyness. Some of my friends even tried to arrange a blind date for me, but it never seemed to work out. But it’s the limit, I really need to get rid of my shyness as early as possible. I don’t want to be labeled as the loser who never gets a date, that’s kind of too distressing.

So guys, tonight I am going out on a date with a girl, whom one of my friends dated a couple of moths back. It’s a blind date as I have never met this girl. I’m too nervous; this date has to be successful.  I need to find a girl that I can say I’m dating, that I can say I am going steady with. I’m tired of always being the left out one when my friends and I go out.  So wish me luck!


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Senin, 15 Juli 2013

So you got their phone number...now what?

You meet a nice guy or girl and you hit it off. You got their phone number but how long should you wait before giving them a call? 

If you’ve seen the movie Swingers, you know what I’m talking about. Let’s look at some of the possible scenarios you may find yourself in: 

Call Right Away (within the first half-hour) 

How you see it: Just making sure they got home safely; or you just really enjoyed their company and you wanted to talk some more 
How they see it: I just talked to this person 30 minutes ago…what else could they want to talk about? 


Call 3-6 Days Later

How you see it: Didn’t want to seem too desperate and/or wanted them to spend a few days thinking about why you weren’t calling. 
How they see it: They didn’t call because they were trying to look cool; what do they look like again? 


Call 7+ Days Later 

How you see it: Been busy and haven’t gotten around to it…maybe the other person will want me more if I show them how little I care. 
How they see it: Who are you? 


The truth is, if you meet someone for the first time, how likely are they to remember you after a week? Now add drinks into the equation and you’re lucky if they remember you the next day. Call the next day if you want to be safe, wait two days if you enjoy living on the edge.

Minggu, 14 Juli 2013

Online Dating - How to make a match.

A pretty new photo of yourself should be used in your profile. You will obtain more serious impression among those who search for a partner. Describe yourself in the best manner. What kind of person would you characterize yourself? What do you like to do? That is essential.

Don't show up with personal information like email-address and phone-number. Likely as not you want to know more about your date through correspondence using the dating-site. If you receive an unpleasant reply, you should take no notice of the sender. At worst write an email to the owner of the website.

Don't lie or exaggerate when you try to describe yourself. Don't write anything about your defeats and bad experiences. Emphasize your good qualities. Your first date, when you decide to meet each other, should occur carefully and gradually.

Realize that some men make a copy of their message for distribution among several women. The more specific you are, describing what you want, the fewer replies. But it is an increasing chance that you will meet someone that suit you.

Be patient. It may take a lot of time to find your dream-partner - also at the cyberspace. But one day it may come true.

Senin, 01 Juli 2013

100 Questions to Ask Your Valentine

Looking to get to know your valentine date better? Running out of things to talk to your sweetie about? First date jitters and don’t know what to talk about? Well, here are 100 questions that can break the ice and get a conversation going. The most important thing is to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question they don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not willing to talk about a certain subject. 1. What was your best job? 2. What were your worst jobs? 3. Tell me all the places you worked 4. Tell me about your best friend 5. Tell me about your family 6. Tell me about your relatives 7. What was your first car? 8. Favorite movie star? 9. Favorite entertainer? 10. Favorite song? 11. What were your life changing moments? 12. First girlfriend/boyfriend? 13. First kiss? 14. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done? 15. Have you ever been arrested? 16. Political affiliation? 17. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn’t? 18. Have you used drugs? 19. Do you like to shop? 20. Best way to relax? 21. Favorite thing to do alone? 22. Ever had a one night stand? 23. Do you save money? 24. What hobbies to you spend money on? 25. If you found a $100 what would you do? 26. Do you want children/more children? 27. Are you a good parent? 28. What makes a good parent? 29. Are you romantic? 30. Ever loose a pet? 31. Dog or cat? 32. Pets growing up? 33. Sleep in the nude? 34. Favorite midnight snack? 35. Do you exercise? 36. Did you ever see your parents making love? 37. Peanut butter and what? 38. What is one food you will never give up? 39. What is a food you can live without? 40. Favorite drink? 41. Perfect day? 42. How many cds do you own? 43. How many dvds to you own? 44. Favorite thing to spend money on? 45. What is the weirdest thing about you? 46. What is on your bedside table? 47. Are you cheap or thrifty? 48. Ever been in love with 2 people at the same time? 49. Grades in high school? 50. Favorite teacher? 51. Relatives in jail? 52. Toppings on pizza? 53. Black or white? 54. Glass half full or half empty? 55. Ever been to a food shelf? 56. Ever milked a cow? 57. Ever tipped a cow? 58. Bath or shower? 59. Mountains or the beach? 60. Plane, train or automobile? 61. Favorite all time movie? 62. Worse movie you have ever seen? 63. Best concert you have been to? 64. Beer, wine or coffee? 65. Best vacation? 66. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do? 67. Worse vacation? 68. Three places you would love to visit? 69. Worse boss? 70. If you could do anything what would it be? 71. Super powers you wish you had? 72. Ever had a massage? 73. Ideal romantic dinner? 74. Dumbest purchase you ever made? 75. Where did you find money when you were flat broke? 76. Ever sold blood? 77. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price? 78. Ever hit a jackpot on a slot machine? 79. Ever won the lottery? 80. What would you do with your lottery winnings? 81. Are you a neat freak? 82. Can’t stand being around people who_________? 83. Crowds or small groups? 84. How old do you want to live to? 85. Loose your sight or hearing? 86. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex? 87. Pet peeves? 88. Most annoying habit? 89. Sexiest parts of a member of the opposite sex? 90. Major turn offs? 91. Tattoos? 93. Piercings? 94. Plastic surgery--would you/have you? 95. Computer geek? 96. Trekee? 97. Play an instrument? 98. Been in a band? 99. Most embarrassing moment? 100. Nude beach yes or no